What If...I Never Blogged?

marybabysteps — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 14:29:10 -0700

I've been thinking lately about how my life has changed since having Brady and really getting down to the business of writing. What if I hadn't started my blog? Writing here every nearly every day for the past few months has really been a blessing in my life.

Starting my blog has given me the push I need to get back in the swing of things. For a long while after leaving my job, I felt hopeless and lost, like I would never feel motivated or stimulated ever again. Pregnancy does not treat me well, and I was feeling sick, sore, and miserable most of the time. Then my beautiful boy was born, and while I was happy, I was also overwhelmed with the fatigue of new motherhood, caring for my older children, and the everyday tasks of running a household.

Blogging gave me that creative outlet that's so often sought after, but never really understood until you've found it. I was able to use my mind in ways that didn't involve the routine of caring for others. Best of all, I began to make connections that made me feel a part of the outside world again.

Through blogging, I've "met" people from all over. Not just the U.S., but from all over the world! This is exciting for me because I live in a rather homogenous area with little diversity and little change; it's so easy to get stuck in a rut here. My blog's even made it to Pakistan - thanks, Nadia!

I've been introduced to lots of wonderful "mom bloggers" at Mom Bloggers Club. It's been so wonderful to connect with other moms. Moms are in a sort of club of their own - no matter where we're from or what our background, we understand each other.

Through these connections, I've found resources for my writing. I've already begun publishing as a contributing editor at Mommy Matter, which has given me the clips and experience all freelance writers need. And the new friends I've made have led me to other writing opportunities.

And I can't forget Twitter! If you haven't joined, you should consider it. It's a great way to network and meet people, get fun tips, and see what great projects others are doing. Don't worry if you don't know anyone there, you can follow me!

Blogging has been an amazing experience for me. It's been the catalyst I needed to move onto other what if's. There's a whole world out there for me to explore! Thanks for joining me for the ride.

Everyday Baby Steps

What If...I Never Blogged?