Elf Island Review and Giveaway

marybabysteps — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 09:23:33 -0700

Elf Island is an online game for kids that parents can really feel good about. I don't know about you, but I worry about the things my kids are doing online. They often seem harmless until they surprise me with something So and So from school told them about some YouTube video. That's why I'm pretty strict about monitoring what they do online. With Elf Island, I don't have to worry, because it's set up to teach kids about giving back and doing good. Gotta like that!

Here's some information about the folks behind Elf Island:

As the parents of twin boys, the dynamic husband and wife team of Liz and Craig
Kronenberger noticed a glaring lack of positive gaming and empowerment within virtual
worlds for kids. From their professional experiences in the kids’ entertainment space, Liz
and Craig decided to blend their entrepreneurial spirit with their philanthropic passions.
Knowing that kids were flocking online to play, Liz and Craig saw a great opportunity to build
something that would entertain, while at the same time fulfill and foster strong social values.
Prompted to act, the Kronenbergers launched Elf Island in 2007, the first virtual world to use
games, storytelling and social interaction to empower kids to make a positive difference in
the real world.
Liz and Craig Kronenberger are committed to creating a fun place for kids that enables them
to give back, influence communities and environments, all through the entertaining world of
Elf Island. It’s empowerment through online fun.

Elf Island uses the phrase, "Play Games, Do Good" to descirbe their Gaming for Good philosophy. The Elf Island game allows kids to use the concept of Mirrored Gaming to practice doing good online while reflecting that same good offline. The game allows them to explore real world issues and to see the improvements that can come from positive action. I love that!

Our Review

And my kids loved it, too. They sat down to play, and I practically had to drag them away. They learned about pollution's effect on our waters and were able to tell me lots of interesting facts they discovered about all kinds of other things as well. Did you know that apples are better for your eyes than carrots? Yeah, me either.And Elf Island is safe for your kids. There are moderators watching what goes on at all times.

They had so much fun that they didn't even realize that they were learning. Elf Island will definitely be in this mom's arsenal for keeping the kids' minds engaged throughout the summer. I look forward to exploring the game with them even more in order to faciliate meaningful conversations about important issues in our world.

Win a One Month Membership

I've got three one month trial memberships to give away to your and your kids! All you have to do for a chance to win is join the Elf Island Fan Club on Facebook and leave me your Facebook user name. If you aren't on Facebook, you can simply tell me what you're doing to keep your child's mind active this summer. All entries must be received by July 12th at noon EST.

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Motherhood Lessons To Live In the Moment

marybabysteps — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 19:00:20 -0800

I was tagged by Alyssa from Life From My Laptop for one of the best memes I've seen yet . The point of the meme is to share a lesson you've learned about motherhood with other moms. The lessons can be from your own mother, from someone you know, or from past experience; there are no right or wrong answers. This meme was started by Christina over at Mom's Resource Blog. I love this idea because there's so much we can learn from each other as moms. Being a parent really is the hardest job I've ever known. I'm happy to share things I've learned along the way and welcome any advice from my friends, but also it's just what we do as women - we share, we look to others for support. Women are very relational.

The lesson I have to share should be nothing new, but it's something that just really hit home for me today. I've been very stressed out lately about the amount of time, or lack thereof, that I have to spend online to meet my new career objectives as a writer and blogger. As many of you know, it takes a lot of work to establish an online presence, and it's quite time consuming to market yourself and to find avenues for your writing. And, as so very many of you also know, it's even more of a challenge to do all of this while raising a family, particularly if you don't have daycare.

So I've taken stock and revised my approach to my career, at least while Brady is so young. But I've been finding that my mind is still on all the work I SHOULD be doing while I'm tending to my household and family duties. It finally hit me this morning that all of this stressing and obsessing is ridiculous and is only causing me to be anxious and irritable with my loved ones. We had a terrible time today during the morning routine, and I got very frustrated with my kids because mommy was trying to get some work done and they were interrupting. As I felt my frustration build, I finally had my "ah ha moment".

A person can't allow herself to be pulled in a thousand directions and expect to be happy and content. Yes, I have career and monetary aspirations that I'd like to meet, but not at the expense of my children's happiness. Pursuing a writing career was supposed to allow me more flexibility and time to be with my children more. But I need to really be with them. In the moment, and not worrying about what's not getting done.

I immediately approached the day with this new philosophy. I didn't work on my computer at all today while Brady was awake, only while he was napping. When the kids came home, I spent time with each of them. We talked about their day, they helped with dinner, I helped with homework. I felt truly in the moment. Not rushed or hurried. It's nearly 10:00 pm now when I'm finishing up this blog post and still have about two more to write, but I don't feel nearly as tired as I thought I would. I suppose it's more tiring to allow yourself to be pulled in so many directions than to just live in the moment and really enjoy the time.

This is the most significant lesson I've learned about motherhood recently, and I hope I can continue to remember its impact. Please let me know if you've experienced a similar struggle and if you have any advice that will help me to live in the moment. Take a look at Alyssa's Motherhood Lessons as well.

I'm supposed to tag 3 - 5 other moms for this meme, but I'm going to cheat. I'm not cheating for the sole purpose of getting out of choosing people, but because I really do think this is such a valuable meme, and I'd like to tag all the moms who read this post. If you don't have a blog, you can just leave a comment. If you choose to share your motherhood lessons at your blog, leave the link to your post in the comment section.